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Friday, September 26, 2025

Catching up with Family

 My children don't live on my doorstep, so it is always so nice to see them when I can.  Son Michael lives in Christchurch, in the South Island, and was up in Wellington recently to stay with his Dad.  We arranged to meet for lunch, I drove down to Otaki, and he drove up from Wellington.  Just as well I got there early, as there was no parking close by, it was a matter of driving around till I found a park in an adjacent street and walk back.  

While I was waiting, several groups of older cyclists arrived.  This cafe is obviously on their route for lunch when they are on their bike rides.  Good crowds in a cafe always means that the place is popular and the food is sure to be good, I feel.  Michael duly arrived, after finding a handy car park non existent too and walked back around a corner or two to reach the cafe.  We ordered lunch and settled down to catch up with the news.


Michael

I had taken along some computer stuff which Robin had tucked away and I didn't know what it was or what to do with it.  Michael took a couple of packets of discs off my hands, so that was good.  There is a lot of stuff at home I'm still trying to sort out, so this going to a good home is a bonus.  As far as computers go, I know what I know, and that's not very much!


I didn't even know what these were

My daughter Nicky came down to see me on Sunday, and we had lunch here at home.  I made some parsnip and bacon soup, it is always very tasty.  Then we sat and chatted.  I showed Nicky a project which had been stalled for a while.  It features three snow people and I mentioned how I hate making and stuffing toys.  Her response was, why did you buy it in the first place if you hate making toys?  The answer was that I bought it very cheap in a sale, and I enjoyed making their easy felt outfits.  But when it came to the bodies I put it away.  Luckily I had stitched up the bodies and arms, and had the stuffing handy so she sat and stuffed them for me.  


Snow people bodies and arms, don't they look weird!

Gemma checked them out too, and was soon rolling around and giving one of those legs a good beating with her back feet, she must have thought it was a type of mouse.


What's all this, she is thinking

I'd better get the heads stitched up, and then maybe Nicky can stuff them for me as well next time she comes visiting.  And I've got no idea how to attach the arms.  Maybe I will need to read the instructions.  Did I mention how I hate making toys?

So it was nice that I spent one on one time with both of my children lately.  It is the school holidays here in New Zealand, and I remembered our outings from Hutt Valley to Wellington on the train each holiday, to see whatever film we had picked out.  And having lunch as well in the Pancake Parlour (now long gone) was another school holiday tradition.  Those were the days.

8 comments:

Janice said...

It’s always nice to catch up with family and what a good thing for Nikki to do the stuffing for you. I’m sure you will love the snow people once they are completed.

Maria said...

Lovely to have had time and a nice lunch with both Micheal and Nicky.
Great Nicky stuffed your body ,legs and arms . Hope you have the head ready to stuff on your next catch up.

ButterZ said...

Mmmm. I’m interested to see your snow people finished

Julierose said...

Ah...those were the days I so often think myself, Jenny--when our family was young and our two children were "busy busy" as were we....
It is so nice that you got to visit with your two;)). My son lives almost 3 hrs away up in Northern Mass. and my daughter about 1 hr away in the CT valley area...They and my grands are all so "busy busy" now with their lives that a visit is a special treat for us, too...thank heavens for my crafting pursuits to keep my own self busy, too. Hugs, Julierose

Karen - Quilts...etc. said...

Nice to see both of them. One of my girls lives 2.5 hours or more from me depending on traffic and we do not see her often. I'm glad your daughter could help you with the stuffing - I don't like to make toys either and gave up on them ages ago - I don't even like to make pillows.

Jackie said...

I am so glad that you got to spend time with the family. Our oldest son lives 9 hours away from us and the youngest about 2.5 hours. I just love when they come home to visit.

God bless.

Karen S said...

Yes, I understand how tricky it is to catch up with family. One of our sons is two and a half hours away, and the other son is on the other side of the world.
Great to have plans to meet your family like you did. And sharing a meal is even better.

Kim said...

I used to love school holidays and lots of fun days out with my girls. How lovely to catch up with your son and daughter and enjoy a lovely meal and conversation. I agree stuffing toys is a pain. It can take such a long time.