It's a special day today, it would have been our 43rd wedding anniversary. We reached 41 years together, and then, unbelievably, Robin passed away just 2 weeks later. But we had so many wonderful years together, and I'm especially grateful we spent a two week holiday in Rotorua the previous year, celebrating our 40th anniversary there. Rotorua was where we had our honeymoon, so it was wonderful to return and visit old haunts and discover new places. Going to a hotel for High Tea was on my list of things to do.
40th Anniversary High Tea at Rotorua
Each November I like to put my quilt "Hearts of Love" on the bed. I made this quilt to celebrate our 25th anniversary. It is full of hearts and stars.
I guess this would be a good time to tell you about the wedding ring disaster. I had been wearing Robin's wedding ring together with mine. Some months ago I was washing dishes, pulled the plug, and turned the insinkerator (waste disposal) on to help get rid of the hot soapy water. What a racket, crunch. crunch, I looked down at my hand and the rings weren't there, they obviously had slipped off my finger. They were what was making a racket, not a missing teaspoon. So then I had to carefully reach right down and pull the rings out. They were mangled. I was devastated, was this an omen, I wondered?
Dealing with the insurance company was surprisingly easy, and I took my rings to one of the local manufacturing jewelers in town, hoping to get my rings remade. Couldn't be done, he said, and showed me trays of new ones. I was quite emotional, but chose two rings to wear. Although I am now widowed, I still felt I wanted to continue wearing a wedding ring to remember all those happy years we shared together.
So I took the two mangled rings to the other manufacturing jeweler, and asked if he could help me. No problem at all. I told him what I wanted, he did a sketch, and several weeks later I went to collect my pendant. I wanted two gold hearts together, adding the small diamonds from the rings. Our original wedding rings have been made into a symbol of love for me to wear close to my heart.
Two hearts as one


