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Friday, May 9, 2025

Sew Wot Tuesday and Goodbye dear friend

 It was a Sew Wot Tuesday with a difference this week, Helen had arranged for us to meet  at Fox's Cottage quilt shop.  This is my favourite LQS and we are always warmly welcomed once we step through the door.

It was a nice sunny Autumn day

Believe it or not, there was not a single item for Show and Tell this week.  But we made up for it by checking out the shop, and most of us purchased a few goodies.  I had a very small list, I needed more pink thread to continue with my machine applique on my secret sewing project.  And I was also looking for some poppy fabric for a border on a small Anzac wall hanging I'm planning.  I didn't care for the several fabric choices with a black background, they looked much too dark for what I wanted.  And then Helen produced a pretty poppy fabric on a lemon background.  Seems this one had fallen behind all the others and was just recently discovered.  That one will suit me nicely, I decided.

My poppy fabric purchase

The staff at Fox's Cottage love it when the Sew Wots come, as there is always plenty of goodies for them to eat as well.   They sat down and joined us for morning tea.


Plenty of morning tea for all


Here we all all, with one absence

That evening I received a very upsetting phone call.  My long time childhood friend Merilyn had passed away suddenly.  That was hard to believe as I had just been chatting to her on the phone in the weekend, and we were talking about us both turning 80 this year.  We met in primary school, and I remember going away on several Christmas camping holidays with her parents.  We grew up, married and had babies, and then she moved down to Dunedin in the South Island.  Over the years we have caught up when she travelled up this way, or we had a South Island caravan trip, writing letters in the early days  and many phone calls.  When we talked, it was just like we had never been apart.  I feel so lucky to have had such a wonderful friend for practically my whole life, and will miss her terribly.  This really hit me hard, as I'm still struggling with losing Robin too.


Merilyn and I at a beach camping holiday





A lifetime of wonderful memories

23 comments:

Connie said...

Jenny I am so sorry for your loss. I should have comforting words, but I can't image the pain of losing a best friend while your still feeling the lose of Robin. My heart goes out to you and prayer as well.

Maria said...

Sorry to read of the loss of your dear long time friend. 🤗

A love.y morning with your Sew Wot friends at Fox Cottage and I can see why the staff enjoy having you there.
Pretty Poppy fabric.

Melisa- pinkernpunkinquilting said...

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear friend, Jenny . You are in my thoughts and prayers. It sounds like you had a lovely day with the Sew Wots. The poppy fabric is so pretty.

The Cozy Quilter said...

My deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your dear friend. Sudden losses are so hard, as you well know. I’m glad you talked to recently and that you have wonderful memories of your lifelong friendship. Hugs! I know the pain of losing a dear friend.
Your Sew Wot gatherings are just my cup of tea! A great group of friends.

Carole @ From My Carolina Home said...

So sorry for your loss. Virtual hugs!

Julierose said...

My condolences on losing your lifelong friend, Jenny...nice to see the memories captured in those photos of yours...
Your "teas" at your get togethers always look so wonderful...
hugs, Julierose

Karen - Quilts...etc. said...

oh Jenny that is sad to lose your long time friend when you haven't even become accustomed to Robin not being with you. And both of you near 80 - I have no long time friends like that - you were lucky to have had that.

QUILTING IS BLISSFUL, DI said...

I am so sorry that you have lost a 'friend' a very dear friend at that--you do have some comfort there though knowing that you chatted with her just a couple days ago!!! Glad you had a lovely outing to a quilt shop--
hugs, di

Nancy J said...

Photos of you together over the years, those are treasures, a huge loss. My longest friend is from 1954. In Auckland, too far to drive now, for either of us, so a plane flight if we want to meet in person. And although Dunedin was a long way further south, you will miss her so much.

Nancy said...

I'm so sorry to hear of your friend's unexpected passing, Jenny. I'm glad you have so many wonderful memories of her, though it's not the same as having her with you. Blessings to you.

Lyndsey said...

I'm so sorry to hear of your friend's death. A friendship started in childhood and lasting through the various phases of life is amazing. I love the photos of the pair of you together. Send love and hugs to you Jenny.

Jackie said...

So sorry to read about your friends passing. You will have lovely memories of a friendship that lasted from the time you were young, hold on to those.

God bless.

kiwikid said...

Very sorry to hear of your good friends passing, you had a wonderful long friendship.

Karen S said...

I am pleased you were able to find some poppy fabric that suited your needs.
And very sorry to hear about your lovely friend.

Jocelyn is Canadian Needle Nana said...

Lovely and different Sew Wots outing. So very very sorry to hear about your lovely friend, Jenny. Thanks for sharing the photos with us. You take care, J

loulee said...

So sorry you lost your friend. Looks like a great sew wot meeting at Foxes cottage.

Janice said...

That is such sad news about your dear friend. I’m glad you found some poppy fabric.

nestki said...

I am so sorry you have lost your dear friend Merilyn. Best friends forever.

Elaine S. said...

I am so sorry to hear about your friends passing. The pictures of the two of you are lovely. Hugs from Canada. 💔💔

ButterZ said...

Jenny, so sorry to hear about your loss. You will have many good memories to help you get through. Thinking of you. 😘
Sew wot sew days are good for you.

Nancy @ Grace and Peace Quilting said...

I'm sorry about the loss of your friend. So good that you saved photos from stages of life. I love that you met with your friends at your favorite quilt shop and they had tea for you!

Denise :) said...

Jenny, I was so sorry to read about the loss of your dear friend. My heart hurts for you. Hugs to you. :)

dianne said...

it breaks my heart to know that you have yet another loss to hurt through ... there has been too much in the past few months for one heart to handle alone ... know that i am holding you in the Light.